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attractive, intelligent, highly educated, sensual, creative, open, playful woman seeking to explore her submissive cravings with a dashing sensual Dom who is confident without being arrogant, intelligent, flexible, clever, perceptive, and attuned psychologically and emotionally to himself and his partner.
not interested in purely sadistic types whose tastes run exclusively toward the infliction of pain. more interested in erotic, mental, and sensual domination (however i do enjoy some impact play involving some pain as part of a D/s exchange rather than pain for pain's sake) with a partner who can use his prodigious mind in addition to his ample collection of props, as i offer myself in submission.
in response to the 'what are you looking for?' question often posed, the answer is that i don't have a check list of relationship categories that i seek. instead, i seek connection, in whatever form that takes. i am more open to the organic unfolding of connections, whatever that looks like, whether it ends up being a brief IM or email chat, a cup of coffee or a glass of wine, or whether someone becomes an acquaintance, friend, lover, playmate, soulmate, or the love of my life....for me, it's the process of engagement that determines what's possible between me and another person, rather than a judgment i can make a priori about what i seek....it seems likely that by focusing only on meeting people whom i judge to fall within certain parameters, that i am likely to miss amazing opportunities to connect with worthy individuals....so i follow the energy with someone, and see where it leads me, and us.
if you write to me, please write something more than one word or one meaningless sentence. the number of emails i receive, stating nothing more than "hello," or "good morning," or "how are you today," is staggering. it is mind numbing to think that people have nothing more to say after reading a profile, than HELLO or good morning. That is the stuff of IM chat when you know someone or are just beginning a conversation. In my view, emails ought to contain a more complete introduction. If you can't manage to write anything more than Hello or How are you today, please just pass me by, as i won't respond to such simple, generic emails.
also, I will happily send photos when the exchange warrants it, but not before, so please don't write me asking for or demanding that i send you a photo. besides, demands will get you shot down. my submission is GIVEN if and when i am READY to do so, but it is never wrested from me, and that will only send you to the back of the line.
if you harbor any complaints or critiques about my profile writing or photo, please KEEP them to yourself as i am really not interested in hearing your thoughts on how my profile words or photos ought to be changed to suit your idiosyncratic tastes and preferences. in case this didn't occur to you, this profile is about me; it's my canvas to express myself as i wish, not intended to please you. it's funny how some strangers feel entitled to micromanage everything including the profile content of people with whom they have no relationship, no connection.
More about me on my other kinky social network site profile. you know, the one that's like facebook for kinksters but if you write the name here it gets censored. my profile is under the same username name!
Finally if you are married/attached and your partner is not a willing participant or informed about your dalliances, please don't contact me about potential play/involvements.
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