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4/23/24 at 3:31 PM:

I have decided that so many have not shown up. That April 30th I will no longer be looking.

I have a lot to get going for planting this year. And rather than hold my hand on my ass waiting I will just stop. And do it myself and hire a handyman to help me with anything my roommates and I can not handle. 

My profile will not disappear but it will change and I will only come on periodically to check emails. 


4/23/24 at 2:50 PM:

I do love messaging people just to be ghosted or ignored. Makes you really want to put yourself out there.


4/23/24 at 2:49 PM:

To All the ladies out there: You are all wonderful. To be viewed is an honour. To be messaged is a privilege. To be in contact is a whole new dimension. Stay safe. Stay strong. Stay in control. 


4/23/24 at 1:48 PM:

Birthday is June 3 and still no slave.

It has been a trying few months. I'm thinking I need to give CS a break and see what other places and sites have to offer.


4/23/24 at 1:40 PM:

If people have been replying to my messages I haven't been getting your reply's 


4/23/24 at 1:38 PM:

The alleged male dominant once again emailed me: Wow angry little elf he is.

Wanted to know what kind of pussy would allow a woman to control me? Why I should meet you somewhere and kick your ass you punk.
OK as i stated I don't take anything personal especially if I don't know you it's not possible to be personal.
I did however accept his offer for his generous offer to kick my ass. I did tell him however I am not going to be submissive to him rather I will please him with an eagerness to fight back. Name the place and time I will be there. lets see if he responds


4/23/24 at 1:37 PM:

Looking for a new Domina. One that wants an obedient slave. Please know what you want and need


4/23/24 at 11:20 AM:

It's so good to be back with my Master NKYMASTER4U  We had a great session last night I can't wait til Monday when we come back together 


4/23/24 at 10:10 AM:

I read this one line and thought it was interesting. 

 

 

 

Ok, so you’ve determined that you’re dominant (or perhaps a switch with a strong dominant side), now what? If you emulate porn, it’s likely you won’t keep play partners very long, since porn is based on fantasy (and making it look easy) but reality isn’t always so smooth.

One of the first things you can think about it what style of domination you’re attracted to. You might feel like different styles at different times, which is perfectly normal. But usually there’s a stronger connection to one in particular. This is true regardless of gender.

1)      Strict, Cold, Cruel & Uncaring – this is a classic one, which is usually shown in porn, but can definitely be brought into reality keeping a few things in mind. First of all, it’s important that you’re not actually uncaring. When you don’t really care, on any level, how the other personal feels, then it can start to creep into abuse territory, and you don’t want to go there. Role-playing or acting in persona that you don’t care is fantastic, and is a popular fantasy for many. But it is still your responsibility to make sure that your play partner is fully intact (physically and emotionally) after your scene is an important part of keeping it “true” to BDSM standards. Same concept can be applied to being cold and cruel. Being strictthough has a little more wiggle room. It’s easier to be strict in commands and expectations while still staying safe. You can speak in short sentences, abrupt even, with no warmth in your voice. Try to stay a bit distant on the outside while keeping a close eye on the scene from the ‘inside’.  Keep the touching of skin to skin a minimum and focus on the using of toys.

2)      Sensual, Teasing, & Seductive – this one is my particular favorite and tends to be my ‘default’ domination style (with a little cruelty thrown in for good measure *wink*). Again, this can be enjoyed by any gender, just keep your play partners desires in mind and keep them on the edge of receiving those desires. Talking is a great way to tease, describing what you could ‘possibly’ do to them. Use a softer, slower, sexier voice. Be enticing. Use a lot of touch, whether it’s skin to skin or dragging your toys sensually across their body. Seduce your play partner into giving up their submission. Make them beg sweetly for the ‘naughty’ things you’re going to be doing to them. Be playful!

3)      Tender & Protective – this style is frequently the first choice for spanko’s, ABDL players, age players and those looking for genuine behavior modification (among others of course). The best phrase to sum up this style of domination is “I’m doing this for your own good”. This style can have elements of cruelty, but it’s done with warmth and care. A lot of times, aftercare is particularly important for this style, both for the dominant and the submissive. Keeping your bodies close together creates the protective intimacy.

These styles can be applied to both physical and psychological play, using toys or just your mind and voice. Feel free to explore each of them until you find one that fits, and don’t limit yourself to just these three! There are many other styles, some a combo of two styles or an attitude entirely different than what I’ve described here. Also, don’t limit yourself to one style all the time unless that’s what you personally want. Difference scenes might elicit a variety of styles for you, so let those styles surface and see where they take you. But above all, have fun and recognize that you are not defined by your dominance, nor the style it may take.

 

 

 Which style are you? None of the above or all three? 


4/23/24 at 8:32 AM:

Woohoo! Simon O shipped my latest latex order! {#emotions_dlg.cheerleader}


4/23/24 at 6:39 AM:

I just don't get Telegram. Seems dead as hell. Please someone enlighten me. 


4/23/24 at 6:37 AM:

i just learned about the crew club.  i am interested in having a dom take me there


4/23/24 at 5:56 AM:

    Good judgement comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgement.  ~ Will Rogers ~


  Perhaps we should remember this when someones past does not align with our own. 

 


4/23/24 at 4:53 AM:

Looking for a couple Friday or Saturday April 19 or 20 over drinks and dinner and worship and submit to you two plus a hotel suite 


4/23/24 at 12:59 AM:

I  seeking one or a couple who are willing and able to relocate . I have a modest comfortable home in a beautiful town . You  will live rent free in exchange for household duties . I will not put up with laziness and expect my sub to follow my lead in diligence with assigned duties 


we will discuss expectations and rules in detail befire entering into any commitment. 

This Home is not a friends with benefits home . This home is a good and caring mistress with compassion and discipline for the right individual /couple . 

This  home could be your safe haven , your family , your place of belonging , your sense of purpose in life to the right individual . 

This  home operates with a strong sense of decency , morals , and character . 

If you are a smoker , drinker , or drug user do not bother to even say hello . If you lean toward healthy pure clean living you could possibly be a great fit . 

I will not spend endless months  chatting online without meeting . So if you have no intention of meeting in person , you will be wasting your time and mine

This home at present consists of one Mistress , one  dominant male who is not live in , one submissive female who is live in and two submissive females who are not live in . 
We are a close nit caring family who practices regular domestic discipline 

After reading this profile , if you think this situation might be appealing to you , feel free to make initial contact . 


4/23/24 at 12:40 AM:

HEADS UP BEFORE MESSAGING: 

This could save both of us some time, the last thing I want is for you to feel blindsided!!

I'm not on here for love. I'm happily taken and I work as a Dominatrix both in person and online. I act akin to sex therapy, my passion is helping people explore their identity, their wants, and their needs. I want to help people understand themselves better.

I'm also not submissive at ALL. I have 0 interest in being submissive. I don't care how dominant you are, you're not gonna "break me down" or "show me my true nature". If you send me a message like that I will not respond. It shows a complete lack of respect for my preferences and my boundaries I've set. I don't find it intriguing. 

I also have multiple submissives at the moment who I give obedience training, I'm currently open to finding another one. 

xoxo

 


4/23/24 at 12:09 AM:

So today i m happy that i still feel and see the remains of my wife's magic stick beating my bottom. It is so arousing to feel my love's dominatuon in my flesh ! It always hard to endure but i m really looking forward to the next time she tortures me! It is an incitation to provocatuve behaviour!^^

 

Trying to share pictures but for some reasons they are not added on my profile. Wait and reevaluate later.


4/22/24 at 11:11 PM:

Those who asking about emotional and mental side, here is the perfect quote from one man. It is not my text, i am too dumb to put it so perfectly

Sure, the physical side is nice

That takes up an hour or two a couple of times a week What happens the rest of the time? Nothing

It HAS to be mentally and emotionally for me That is based on a connection and need to actually live it every single day of the week Your humiliation and mental and emotional pain and suffering is lived all day, every day

It becomes the focus of life and is there in everything we do

It is there when we go out, or travel

Humiliated in everyway, for anything That can be done all day, every day


4/22/24 at 10:20 PM:

I went to a new (to me) munch today. One thing I promise myself is that during a first meeting with an individual or group is NO BOOZE. Yoinks ago, while intoxicated, I had a couple of bad experiences with people who were just mean. 

Trying to clamp down on my reactions while intoxicated AND upset is worse than figuring out what to do when sober and upset. As in, I can feel the restraint taxing my poor, hooch-addled brain.

Not that I cannot be lulled into a false sense of security, because shit happens, but at least I will have some comfort in knowing how things are supposed to go.

Although kombucha is a fermented beverage, I have only gotten a buzz off of "kombucha beer" products, so I think I am being pretty careful.

Lovely munch. Lots of conversation. I learned some new facts about reindeer. {#emotions_dlg.mrpuffy}


4/22/24 at 8:03 PM:

After much searching, am all set to relocate to the Bakersfield area in the next few weeks for a new job.

 Still seeking a submissive male within a reasonable driving distance.


4/22/24 at 6:41 PM:

Arrived a little late went upstairs and went in the room closed the door and got dressed in my tigh high my thigh high boots and my corset he Put on my collar and put the gag in and I put on my blindfold under my ponytail  he sat me down on the bed and put thigh straps around my legs and put wrist restrains on my wrist and hooked them to the thigh straps making me helpless and at the mercy of my master he began fucking me with my dildo and he added two fingers in my ass moaning loud it was a little uncomfortable but I enjoyed it and asked to cum he told me no I asked again he said no I continued holding it  and I asked again he said yes finally I cum so hard from his fingers in my ass my eyes rolled back in my head I thanked him for the release he sat me up and I met his cock and sucked it down my throat mmm I love his cock he asked me where do you want my cum  he said you was late so you  don't get to drink it this time  so he put it on my pussy and made me wear it home I laid talking to him blindfolded it was so nice to have aftercare and some water I felt like this was one of the better sessions we had 


4/22/24 at 3:03 PM:

I am actually going out with someone from this site.

Sounds normal enough.

Not sure what to expect but it is nice to experience the civil and hold back on the cynical journals.

Should really stock up on rope, just in case.

C


4/22/24 at 2:38 PM:

I am torn between being a submissive.  And dominant.  It depends on the day.  Most time I'm submissive.  But there are days when I feel dominant.


4/22/24 at 2:13 PM:

Rant journal!

Well this Internet dating is so wishy washy and tiring, I must say.

And ghosting...well that must be the new internet fad.

 


4/22/24 at 1:44 PM:

I found an amazing profile. One of the rare ones on here. Someone that put as much effort and thought as I have into their profile. Then...I lost it. Coming from a purely appreciative viewpoint. I realized that this site has a keyword search. Well, it was then easily found.

One of only 3 profiles on this entire site with that keyword. Hmm...I wonder what it was? 


4/22/24 at 1:18 PM:

Since it's so hard to update things here, I'm actual 55 now


4/22/24 at 1:16 PM:

For some reason only part of Part One got brought over so this is a continuation of part One.  

He showed up with some beer and we hung out in the living room laughing, talking and drinking a couple beers during the game.  Normal guy stuff.  At halftime it got up to get another beer and asked if he wanted one.  He said sure and it walked towards the kitchen.  Just as it was about to enter the kitchen he grabbed its arm.  He pulled back on its arm and spun it around towards him.  Before it could find out why its arm was being grabbed it found itself face to face with him and he kissed it on the lips.  It immediately made a fist as it pulled away and struggling between anger and confusion.  It didn’t know whether to hit him or ask what is wrong with him.  Before it could process what had just happened he immediately kissed it again on the lips.  In the process of the second kiss it quickly realized it was enjoying it and even kissing back.  During the process of making out we somehow had went from the entrance to the kitchen all the way in and it’s back up against the refrigerator.  

 

    He pulled its shirt off and gently kissed its chest while running his fingers across its bare smooth chest and continuing kissing.  It was turned on and quickly lost into lust and was letting Tilas take the lead to where this goes.  His hand slid down its stomach and felt its package swollen against its boxers and jeans.  We kissed as he slowly unbuttoned its jeans.  His hand slid inside its jeans as he rubbed its cock through its boxers.  He massaged it as he felt in already throbbing some.  I’m still jeans got dropped to its ankles and it stepped out of them.  Standing there bare except being in its boxers and cock straining inside them.  It pulled his shirt off and reciprocated his actions.  Kissing and touching his chest as it gently teased his nipples with its nails and teeth.  Feeling the hair across his chest and over his stomach.  We kissed some more and then it slowly opened his jeans.  Its hand slid inside his jeans and felt his huge hard cock already ready to go.  It massaged his cock through his boxers.  He pushed his jeans down and stepped out of them.  It saw just how big his cock was through his boxers especially the outline.  It was long but impressively thick.  Out of instinct or what felt natural it dropped to its knees in it boxers and grabbed the band of his.  It slowly pulled his boxers down to his ankles.  His cock springing out from captivity.  It grabbed his cock and gently and slowly felt it in its hand massaging it with strokes.  After taking a couple of minutes taking it all in it opened its mouth and slowly took the head of his cock into its warm, wet and wanting mouth.  It had never sucked cock before but remembered seeing others do it on porn sites and talking to guys about their experiences describing it.  The head of his cock in its mouth was bigger than it thought it would be so it relaxed its mouth even more as it felt it go deeper.  It’s jaws relaxing remembering hear others talk about it.  His head fully in as his shaft was going in as well.  It quickly felt the head of his cock start to go inside its throat.  It gagged but knew how sensitive a cock can be so focused on sucking it in and would get a breathe once pulled out some.  His cock filling every area of its mouth shaft and all into it was almost fully in.  He didn’t hold it there long before pulling it out of its throat.  Grateful it took a deep breathe and immediately its throat was being filled once again.  It definitely gagged each time but worked through it until completely in and then withdrawn.  Taking a deep breathe.  This went on for only a few minutes and then he stopped it and had it stand up.  He kissed it passionately tongues caressing as that’s all how it knew to do being married was those wet sloppy passionate kisses other than the quick peck on the lips.  He grabbed its


4/22/24 at 12:08 PM:

I don't know if my first journal entry is going to appear or not.  It has been several days since I wrote it and saved it and there is no sign of it.  Until I see something actually post I am not going to invest anymore effort into this.


4/22/24 at 11:43 AM:

if you send ME a message and introduce yourself, you have a good chance I'll converse with you. I'll give sissies advise they need but it would be nice if you'ed repay ME with the pics I ask for. common curtesy. 


4/22/24 at 11:29 AM:

Goddess has been away, as life intruded, for some time.  Imagine Her Joy at finding on Her return a slave uncovering a new dimension to herself and immediately reconnecting with Me and another girl sending energy to Me that she had hidden from herself for years, trusting in Goddess to help her grow.

Worship and devotion is lovely.  The intimacy of being seen and valued and spending time with Me cannot be overstated.


These two give Me great and tremendous joy.  Others do as well. but this entry is for them. I hope they both smile as they receive My Blessings.

if this sparks a yearning in you, especially if you are lost and shy and wish for happiness through devotion, message Me.  My Abundance awaits.


4/22/24 at 10:30 AM:

There is so much going on in my head. An inescapable desire. I dare not speak to family mrmbers or friends about it. but im lost, unsure.

I try to ignore these desires but they rush in like a flood. Am I normal, is there something wrong with me? IDk.

Iwant to run to it and run at the same time.

Are there answers?


4/22/24 at 9:38 AM:

Bound in place for strapon training, sounds so fun.but is reality not pleasurable?

Only one way to find out in my book.

So I wait for that one who delivers.....with a smile....

 


4/22/24 at 8:48 AM:

I am seeking a relationship with an Alpha gentleman sub

That means we are a couple

A duo,partnership,dating

FLR is the only difference regarding a vanilla couple

No hiding behind doors

No discression



4/22/24 at 6:15 AM:

I find myself in a position that I must repeat something I have said before and that is:

I have zero interest in meeting sub/slave men nor do I have any interest in meeting guys who cross dress either.

I have nothing against either and I wish you the very best of luck in your search for happiness because we all deserve some of that.

It is just not my things it is as simple as that.

 


4/22/24 at 5:31 AM:

I want to live my life being like in the anime porn of Princess Mina. She was a sex slave and a queen. Yet it is hard to find something like that these days. Most of the men are childish and spineless. Which means it is better of to be both the man and the woman sometimes and be by yourself. The new type of men coming out of the wood work actually punch you if you reject them. They will demand you to go on another date with you even after you say no. They will stalk you and even take a picture of your drivers plate in order to identify you.  Women we now have to be extra careful and aware of or surroundings. I don't want anymore news reports of us ending up missing, killed or maimed due to something that these fake men do. I urge you please please be safe out there and start bringing friends with you or family members. It is not safe to just be ny yourself chilling anymore.



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