I am a submissive man on a rocky journey through life. I have learned a lot, and seen many things. One thing I know is i can't take this journey alone, nor can i take it for the sake of myself. I've been trained as a slave, and consider my sexual orientation as pansexual+submissive to be a serious part of who I am.
Currently I have a Dominant romantic partner in my primary relationship. We are poly, and they happy to share me with safe, respectful play partners. Please know that this means that I currently would not be available for a fully committed monogamous romantic relationship with someone else. I am primarily looking for friendships or casual play at this time.
If you would like to know more, please do message. I live in the Victoria area of British Columbia. I am always interested in new friends too, wether or not play is of mutual interest, so please drop me a line.
Who am I seeking when it comes to play?
A person who is dominant to some degree is a must. Sadistic is also a plus, but not as a primary focus; Pain for the sake of pain just hurts and gets boring. Someone who understands how to stimulate the mind in play would fit well here. Anyone could physically push me to kneel, but it's a hell of a lot more fun if it's my mind that's brought to it's knees.
I enjoy all sorts of different kinky folks to, so don't worry if your particular personal power identity is atypical. From Leathermen to Furries I'm sure we could hit it off.
Also, you need to be someone who likes having fun, and having someone like me put a smile on your face when we play (Even if sometimes you have to hide that smile behind a theatrical grimace because that's the scene you want). I'm a pleaser, and kink, especially if the scene has a heavy d/s to it, needs to reflect that. So be prepared to enjoy me and be amused as can be.
Silly people are highly encouraged to make an advance.
Experience is a plus but I'm happy to play with a newer person to as long as the play chemistry is there.
Safety is very important to me and I'll ask you about your own practices regarding it.
And if you want a far flung friend in the global kink community that's awesome too, because i'm on-line often enough to keep up with for casual chatter.
And if you are a complete douchebag, please don't bother me.
9/23/2013 9:50:15 PM
Ive made a few profile updates in the last 3 years but no journal updates.
I live with my wonderful romantic Boss (their power identifier), and am just happy as a clam. it's been a busy few years. Due to the awesome magic of poly I also have a lovely Mistress in my life too. I'm hoping now to make more friends and connections though. :)
12/8/2010 7:00:32 PM
I am currently not looking as I have found a very lovely Mistress. Wish me luck.
9/9/2010 6:07:11 AM
I have pretty pictures now! weeee
7/24/2010 10:29:49 AM
Getting Bondage Photos done next month. So exciting. Finally something nice I can put on here!
5/2/2010 9:02:23 PM
I have recently developed a real interest in pony play. I am currently looking for a dominant who is experienced or looking to gain experience in that style of play. If this is you please do hit me up.
5/1/2010 9:49:51 PM
I recently had a conversation with a gentleman obsessed with feet. He wanted to know if I could be his foot slave 24/7. All he wanted was someone to service his feet and be a basic servant.
It really irritated him when I told him I'm overqualified.
Some peoples children...
4/29/2010 12:42:29 PM
How could I begin to submit my body and mind to someone completely if I barely know them, at first meeting?
Better yet how could I respect someone enough to serve them, with any quality of submission, if their idea of an intelligent expression is "u will server me". Really? Really? or they refer to themselves as a "Dominate." How are you a VERB? If you can't master basic grammar and spelling how can you master me?
I love submission to a worthy Dominant. It is my fulfilment to give myself. But I am a high quality human being and partner to a Dominant.
I also have the abilities, experience, and training of a slave worth being put on auction. Do you really think I'm going to give myself up at the drop of a stiletto heel, some shiny latex photo, and a few badly phrased letters? Really?
I guess my point is, imbeciles and fools need not apply. This boy seeks a "High Quality" Intelligent Owner and Partner.
3/7/2010 1:00:50 AM
I've recently discovered that happiness in life and in relationships has a lot to do with loving myself. It also has a lot to do with taking my highest potential, and being able to give that to someone. It helps if that person can make me feel like a dirty dirty slut, and the most cherished slave alive in the same token.
