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~Well first and foremost I'm submissive to my core and I love to be of service, thrive on it in fact... my favorite thing to do is personal grooming service! However, not so much on the domestic service side of things, with the exception of cooking...I love to cook with/for the One I serve!!! I'm happiest when I am submitting/surrendering to someone whom I respect. Finding that special Dominant is my main focus right now, but He is proving to be quite elusive!
~I'm poly! Who knew? I know I only want one person to whom I will submit/surrender... but allowing myself and/or my partner to have multiple people/play partners in life takes the pressure off of each other to "fill all of their needs". ***With that being said I have come to realize that I need to be the primary partner in a relationship. I need to have someone who is available on more than just a weekend basis. I need someone who is willing to share their bed with me, as well as being available to share mine.
~I'm very sexual and I love pleasing my partner (and being pleased too of course) but i also believe that to have great kinky-fun-time you don't necessarily have to involve sex. If you happen to be looking just for sex, move along please, I need so much more than a sexual relationship. *** Addendum - I have decided that this is not necessarily the case now..I have as of late enjoyed a couple random "hook-ups" that were AMAZING, and realized that I may have been denying myself extra super fun sexy playtime...I have also been fantasizing more and more about being used as a fuck hole by multiple people...I'm just not sure how to go about realizing said fantasy. So stay tuned as this part of my profile blooms! LOL
~I'm a BBW and this lifestyle is helping me become more comfortable in my own skin, if BBWs are your thing, then I'm your girl!
~I'm a masochist or pain slut/whore (but not an extreme masochist)...whatever the label may be, I just know I love pain with my pleasure!!
~I'm fairly new to the BDSM world...a little over 1.5 year now. But I still very much enjoy trying and learning new things.
~I'm educated but on the other hand I can be a bit of a flake at times...ooooh and I'm terrible with names, so please don't be offended if I ask you your name a few times...kudos to the inventor of Post it notes!!
~I'm self sufficient, I'm not looking for someone to support me nor am I looking to support someone else.
~I'm silly, and have a bit of sass in me as well. However, I don't consider myself a brat...most of the time.
~I am honest and expect complete honesty in return. A good friend of mine once said "if we can't be brutally honest about what is going on, then everything else we have is in peril"...I wholeheartedly agree!
~There is so much more about me, but I don't want to give it all away here...I'll save that for our first coffee/dinner date! However, if you have any questions or want to know more please ask, I'm an open book. I believe in open communication and complete transparency in everything we do within this lifestyle, this is non-negotiable. What I'm looking for:
~A man who I can engage within a TPE relationship. I'm most interested in finding a D/s dynamic then eventually a Master/slave dynamic.
~Obviously I love to play (just look at my kinky list below... and if you're interested in a scene at The Sanctuary PM me...my masochist always loves playtime!)
~A female sexy-fun-playtime-friend and am craving to have that again in my life.
~Friends, who doesn't need more friends in life! If you're interested in being friends I'd love to hear from you, however, with that being said...I don't accept random friend requests just for the sake of collecting them. Please at least reach out to me via message before sending me a friend request! :) Deal breakers:
~I'm 420 and alcohol friendly...to a point. I have nothing against people who choose to partake but prefer not to play with someone under the influence. There are far too many risks in what we do and having a clouded mind and judgment is not my idea of edge play.
~Anyone who wants to just hook up in the Starbucks parking lot! Do I really need to add this to my profile? Unfortunately, yes, yes I do. *Do you like what you see so far?
Drop me a note! I would love to engage in conversation with like minded people that find themselves on a similar path. Labels matter, but we glean more information through talking about what those labels mean and how we define them.
The latest result of the BDSM test (10-12-16):
100% Submissive
99% Rope bunny (cuffs, collar, and chains are more like it)
97% Exhibitionist
96% Degradee
95% Masochist
95% Experimentalist
93% Slave
78% Non-monogamist
75% Voyeur
68% Primal (Prey)

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sweetankinky
 
 Age: 24
  Texas