Just helping out where I can. I'm here to help educate. So many fakes on this site any more.. and not just scammers... But wannabes.. I'm here to help point those out.
You need to educate yourselves. It's quite simple to google a screen name.. simply put quotes on a name and maybe a location. That alone will tell you much more than you knew before you started. Let google become your new best friend. Names, email addresses, Id's.. even phone numbers...
There is a spot on the main profile page that says keywords. Put in the profile ID that you want to search. People do your research and stop the craziness that come along with being on this site.
Also, so many on here have multiple profiles. Try narrowing your search to ages and weights to see if any match up... You might be surprised.
If all else fails, simply ask the right questions.
One can only blame themselves if they don't follow through and do their research. It's your life.